Thursday, September 20, 2012

Acceptance

Have you ever wanted something or someone so badly and it just never seems to work out the way you had planned? I am always too eager to give others a second chance after they have done me wrong continually. While giving up in many cases, is not the answer, sometimes listening to your heart will bring on frustration, pain and a waste of time. Learning to accept reality and let go, allows you to think more clearly and make logical decisions.
I am a very persistent person. Once I have a goal in mind, whether it involves friendships, family, romantic relationships, career or education, I stick with it and I continue trying until I get the results I want. However, I understand that what we want is not always right for us. God sometimes has a different plan for us; and our stumbling blocks are just a way to prepare a path in a different direction for something much better than we ever expected. So, although I might be feeling a little down about a few circumstances in my life, I’m looking at the bigger picture and what lies ahead----a huge blessing is coming my way. Soon, the pain I feel over foolish actions of people who don’t deserve me in their lives, will be a distant memory and won’t matter in the new life that I’m preparing for.
Stay Strong, Stay Happy! (…and most of all….DON’T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF).
Proverbs 3:5-6  (NIV)
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.

Monday, September 10, 2012

Mistakes

We've all made mistakes at some point in our lives, no matter how big or how small. But when does making those same mistakes stop being mistakes and instead becomes a habit or choice? How do we fix what we've messed up?

Well, for me, I can be "hard-headed". It can sometimes mean getting burned over and over and over again until I finally get it. Crazy huh? Maybe so, but as we get older and live through many of life's situations, we become familar with ourselves and how we fit in to this society that's so full of confusion, low morals and values, violence, and so on. We learn to rise above things that continue to bring  us down.

Eventually, you will get tired of those bad habits and strive to live a happier, more fulfilling life. It's your choice. So, what are you going to do? Sob over your past mistakes or move forward by making better choices that will positively effect you and those around?


Jacqueline E. Perry
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