Honesty

For me, honesty is a big deal. I strongly dislike liars.  To intentionally lie is just wrong. I admit that I have, at various times in my life, especially as a kid--lied, exaggerated or omitted information. People tend to avoid the truth to either protect themselves or others. They fail to realize that dishonesty hurts more in the long run. It's a cowardly act. When it comes to close family and friends, I want others to be honest with me; however, there is a proper way to approach me without being rude or harsh.

In the world of dating, I'm hit with dishonesty ALL the time. It seems that when a man is not interested, they walk away instead of merely saying, "I am not interested." I respect people who have the courage to admit their feelings.

Proverbs 13:5 ESV   
The righteous hates falsehood, but the wicked brings shame and disgrace.

There are times when we simply think of lying as a "good" act. Maybe there is a reasonable purpose? Well, maybe...but it's not the right choice. And as I live and experience new people in my life and new situations, I learn that being honest with myself first, allows me to share who I am, completely.

Jacqueline E. Perry
I Forgive You is now available, Kindle Edition....Paperback coming soon.